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Posted By: hotcidr Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:05 PM
To my gas and oil friends, I lost my wonderful sweet wife of 54 years last night. Many of you have met Mary Sue over the years at Columbus and at Iowa Gas. We were best friends and both loved to collect. She has had Alzheimer's for the past 8 years but it didn't really get bad until about a year ago and then really bad the past month. Anyway, thank you to those that have already heard and have contacted me
Ray
Posted By: Morgan Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:08 PM
Sorry Ray. May Mary Sue rest in eternal peace. Prayers for you and your family.
Posted By: advertologist Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:09 PM
Ray,
sorry too hear - my condolences .. ... cool
Posted By: pumpingethyl Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:13 PM
Rest in peace Mary Sue..
Posted By: RetroPetro Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:16 PM
Ray, sorry to hear of your wifes passing. My sympathies to you and your family.
Posted By: Ed Steagall Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:16 PM
frown Sorry for your loss Ray. May I extend my sympathies to you and your family. Ed.
Posted By: Loyd Pierce Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:26 PM
Ray you will be in our prays, so sorry to hear of your wifes passing.
Posted By: Tom R. Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:33 PM
So sorry Ray. My condolences to you and your kids and families. Yes I recall seeing Mary Sue at lots of meets thru the years, always tending shop with you. Again, so sorry.

Tom
Posted By: Bob Richards Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:34 PM
Ray, I am truly sorry to read of your loss... I too wish to extend my sympathies and prayers to You, your Family and Friends...
Posted By: Steven C. Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:36 PM
Ray, I'm not sure what to say really. With all I've been going through with Melissa, it's tough to see your post this morning and I feel as though any words will only fall short. But my heart and prayers go out to you and your family!!! I pray for your peace of mind after such a thing. 54 years is an amazingly long time. There must have been a lot of wonderful times!!

Gods blessings!!
Steve
Posted By: Catauladave Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:43 PM
Hello Ray,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
Dave Jones
Posted By: Scott Baselt Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:45 PM
Sorry for your loss Ray. I'll be praying for you and your family.
Posted By: Rabbitman Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:48 PM
Condolences to you and your family. May God's peace be with you....Gary
Posted By: Ryan Underthun Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 04:51 PM
So sorry Ray.
Posted By: gaspumpfrank Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 05:00 PM
Sorry to here of your loss,our prayers are with you and your family. Frank
Posted By: Toys4Fun Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 05:06 PM
Sorry for your loss Ray. Prayers sent for you and your family. Les.
Posted By: Chevrolet SS Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 05:49 PM
Ray, so sorry to read of your wife's passing. My codolences and prayers sent.

Also, thank you for taking the time to post and letting us know. Take care my friend.
Posted By: ironheadtom Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 05:52 PM
Very sorry for your loss. Tom
Posted By: DWSheffer Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 05:54 PM
Sorry for your loss, my deepest sympathy and thoughts go out to you and your family during this difficult time.
Darin
Posted By: Keystone Gas Man Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 06:03 PM
Sorry to hear you lost your wife and friend. God be with you and your family, Brian
Posted By: buzzy56 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 06:11 PM
So sorry to hear this . May God Bless you and your family and help you during this difficult time.
I have been going thru a similar situation with my wife this past year . In and out of the hospital 3 times this year , once in intensive care and almost lost her.
So much stress I know first hand .Still dealing with the memory loss , same questions over and over.
I am sure it took a lot of understanding on your part as I find myself getting frustrated sometimes and try to catch myself.
We get so busy in life & it passes so quickly , we look back and wonder where it all went.
Hold on to the memories as you had many blessed years to reflect back on.
God Bless You
Posted By: Neil Gerrard Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 06:51 PM
Sorry to hear Ray, can't imagine your loss but prayers for you both
Posted By: Done4 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 06:53 PM
Very sorry for your loss, God bless. Les
Posted By: gatorgaspumps Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 07:08 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss Ray. Richard
Posted By: Mike M. Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 07:09 PM
Ray, Joanne and I are sorry for your loss. We both first met you and Mary Sue in Iowa a few years back when you delivered a 18" OK sign I had you bring there. I know when we last chatted earlier this year how bad things were so even though she has moved on we will keep you in our daily thoughts and prayers and hope it helps you though your loss!
Posted By: JW32 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 07:36 PM
Ray, Very Sorry to hear about Mary Sue, Sending Thoughts & Prayers...
Jerry Wheeler
Posted By: mrcavalcade Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 07:44 PM
So very sorry for your loss.
Posted By: Oilcanman87 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 08:27 PM
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Posted By: K W FRITH Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 08:34 PM
Ray-- So sorry for your loss my friend! I can't begin to comprehend how difficult it must be to lose your life's partner?
My thoughts and prayers are with you today! Gods peace for you!
Posted By: KZ1000 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 09:04 PM
Sorry to hear Ray, hope the best for you.
Posted By: gasmansgp Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 09:09 PM
Ray, I am sorry for your loss. You have been together for a long time. As with my wife, over a lifetime, it seems? I can not imagine being without my best friend. The good times will always replay when you get down. Best as always, Paul www.severngaspumps.com
Posted By: azjockey Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 09:16 PM
Sorry to here about Sue . My Prayers Are With You Ray.
Gene
Posted By: blacktee Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 09:36 PM
Sorry for your loss Ray, you two will be in my prayers tonight.
Posted By: eshaver Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 09:48 PM
Ray, I'm a great listener if you need to vent . My condolences to you
Posted By: Bass Master Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 10:06 PM
Ray, So sorry to hear. May the GOOD LORD give peace to you and your family!! Brian
Posted By: Gasman84470 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 10:21 PM
Ray you've obviously had a great life with a long time friend and wife. My condolences on her passing.
Posted By: vmc44 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 10:44 PM
So sorry to hear that Ray
Posted By: souperhigh Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 10:49 PM
Ray, I am very sorry for the loss of your awesome wife. She always brightened up the shows and auctions.
I first met her at one of auctions in Guthrie, Oklahoma.
She will be dearly missed and you my friend are in my prayers and if you need anything please let me know
Maurice
Posted By: PETRO NUT Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 11:26 PM
Ray, try hard and take care of yourself. May god give you and your family the coping skills to get thru this.
Posted By: JimT Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Nov 27 2015 11:44 PM
What a blessing to have a partner/best friend by your side for 54+ years. May our Highest Power give you strength in your journey to come.
Posted By: 47reo-travis Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:00 AM
Sorry to hear that Ray . May God bless you and your family .
Posted By: philmccauley Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:01 AM
Our condolences to you and your family Ray. May she rest in peace.
Posted By: Dale Stephens Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:04 AM
So sorry for your loss, Ray....
Posted By: Nicole Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:08 AM
So sorry to hear you lost your best friend. I have always liked looking at your avatar--the pure joy on your faces. She is beautiful, and must have been just as beautiful on the inside. Take care of yourself...
Posted By: sandman325 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:46 AM
My condolences to you and your family......
Posted By: TJammer Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:48 AM
My condolences to you and your family Ray.
Posted By: Tbirdgas Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 01:19 AM
Condolences on the loss of your wife, 54 years of many good memories to look back on, and help you make it through this
tough time.
Posted By: Craig Osbeck Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:08 AM
Very sorry to hear, nothing can replace a life mate.
Posted By: Signs&Neons Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:21 AM
So sorry to hear this Ray. Our thoughts and prayers to you.
Rest in peace.
Posted By: Oldgas Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:35 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Ray.
Posted By: st.rod Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:40 AM
Words can never express the feeling. God bless you and may she be at peace.

Larry
Posted By: 60wayne Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:49 AM
Ray I am sorry to hear of your loss. It was a pleasure to meet your wife several times over the past few years. I know how difficult it is to deal with Alzheimer's. It is something that has affected several in my family. Wish the best for you. Henry
Posted By: powerlube Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 04:17 AM
So sorry Ray.
Posted By: DuceCpe Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 04:18 AM
We are very sorry for your loss. It was a pleasure to meet your wife at Iowa. You and yours are in our prayers.
Ric & Domonica Esgar
Posted By: Big Block Cat Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 04:44 AM
Ray, I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Posted By: 63shelby Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 05:00 AM
She's in a better place than us all !! may God grand you and your family with healing and peace....
Posted By: mcguffeyd1 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 09:51 AM
Sorry to hear that Ray. God bless.
Dan
Posted By: redindianguy Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 11:38 AM
So sorry Ray , you are great people and I have always enjoyed dealing with you . So sorry to hear of this . God bless ya .
Posted By: hancock-oil Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:06 PM
Ray
So Sorry to Hear that! Jim
Posted By: Stu K. Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:24 PM
Our condolences to your family at this time.
Posted By: Bill jr Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 12:30 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Ray
Bill
Posted By: H1HUMMER Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 01:36 PM
Ray, I am so sorry for your loss, I wish I had the right words. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Steve Z
Posted By: Derbygasman Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:10 PM
Very sorry for your loss Ray. Saying a prayer for you and your family.

Marshall
Posted By: Scott Shipers Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:13 PM
Ray,

I'm sorry to hear the news.

Thoughts and prayers with your family at this time.

Scott
Posted By: scottpcm Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:14 PM
Sorry Ray I didn't know she was ill. Best to you and your family. Scott B.
Posted By: Jarvis Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:16 PM
Sorry Ray for your loss!
Posted By: garagejunkie Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 02:27 PM
Ray,So sorry to hear of your loss.Prayers to you & your family.
Posted By: Donald D. Brock Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 03:18 PM
I am very, very sorry Ray. There are more things out of our control in this life than within. You know you did as much as humanly possible to help so do take comfort in that and bless you for being there. There's a great group of people here that sincerely care. We're all thinking about you Brother.
Posted By: trifiver Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 05:25 PM
Ray, I am truly sorry to read of your loss... I too wish to extend my sympathies and prayers to You, your Family and Friends...



Sid
Posted By: Man-Cave-Shoppe Dave Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 05:47 PM
My most positive thoughts and feelings go to you and her loved ones that remain in this world without her!!
Posted By: hotrodfun1 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 06:30 PM
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Posted By: tbuckles Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 07:51 PM
Ray,
So very sorry to hear of the loss of your love and best friend.
Tom.
Posted By: eric grinder Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sat Nov 28 2015 08:56 PM
Ray, so sorry for your loss. I remember meeting her in Brimfield a few years back. She was a sweetheart.
Posted By: bsplichal95 Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sun Nov 29 2015 02:00 AM
Sorry for your loss Ray, Rest in Peace Mary Sue. Thought and prayers to you...
Posted By: frankpl Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sun Nov 29 2015 02:03 AM
Ray my friend I was so sad to get your email, I will miss her ...Frank
Posted By: gasmelincelr Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sun Nov 29 2015 11:32 PM
Sorry for your loss Ray.
Posted By: tulareone Re: Mary Sue Seider - Sun Nov 29 2015 11:53 PM
Ray--sorry for your loss --I know it a tough and sad road you have travel --we're going thru the same with my mother-n-law
Posted By: Gas Pump Rob Re: Mary Sue Seider - Mon Nov 30 2015 12:15 AM
Ray,

I am so sorry for your loss. I know that the two of you were very close and shared a special loving relationship for many years. Whenever I saw Mary Sue I could see the love and joy in her eyes for you. She always smiled whenever we talked at a show and I will also miss seeing her. I will be praying for you during this very difficult time.

Rob
Posted By: KYGULF Re: Mary Sue Seider - Mon Nov 30 2015 01:40 AM
Sorry to hear Ray. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this time.

Brian
Posted By: 1965CHPCSP Re: Mary Sue Seider - Mon Nov 30 2015 05:22 AM
Ray,
I am truly sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. I never had the pleasure of meeting her but my dad did when you stopped by Colorado Springs on your way to Iowa Gas to deliver a couple of signs. He really enjoyed the conversation you guys had and really thought your wife was as sweet as they come. I cannot begin to comprehend how difficult it is for you to lose your wife? I witnessed my dad's pain after my mom's passing....they were married 54 years as well.
My thoughts and prayers are with you through these rough times and if there is anything I can do, please let me know.
Prayers for you and your family.
God Bless, Mike
Posted By: pumpdoc Re: Mary Sue Seider - Mon Nov 30 2015 12:06 PM
Ray sorry for your loss. I am on my way to 7:30 Mass. I will offer this Mass for your wife, Mary Sue.Dan.
Posted By: nebrgas Re: Mary Sue Seider - Mon Nov 30 2015 01:37 PM
Ray,

My condolences to you and your family. Thoughts are with you.

Regards,
Dave
Posted By: Old Racer Re: Mary Sue Seider - Mon Nov 30 2015 06:36 PM
Ray, so sorry for you.
Posted By: EXRACERX Re: Mary Sue Seider - Wed Dec 02 2015 03:18 PM
Ray,

We are so very sorry for your loss. It is very fortunate that you had such a great friend to share your life with and may you and your family find peace in the coming days and years!

With deepest sympathy,
Keith and Cari Breazeal
Posted By: Seth Robbins Re: Mary Sue Seider - Fri Dec 04 2015 04:38 PM
Ray....so sorry to hear about Mary Sue. She was always the consummate "California Girl" just pretty as a picture and bubbly personality. I so miss having my sales and seeing you guys come rolling into town with tales of danger & woe coming through the Southern Rockies. Give me a call please, would love to talk. 405-627-1052
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